Why would I want a birth photographer? Won't I look seriously triggered?
April 2018
WHY would you want to have your birth story documented?
Women in labour are much like cats. We like to go somewhere safe, dark, and where we feel comfortable so we can enter our zone and concentrate on the job to be done, undisturbed.
Why then would you want someone present WITH a camera, documenting all this?
Won't you look seriously triggered?? Feel exposed??
WHY would you want to have your birth story documented?
Women in labour are much like cats. We like to go somewhere safe, dark, and where we feel comfortable so we can enter our zone and concentrate on the job to be done, undisturbed.
Why then would you want someone present WITH a camera, documenting all this?
Won't you look seriously triggered?? Feel exposed??
Well,
there is a way to have this precious event documented, undisturbed and with the
respect you need, so you receive a beautiful collection of clear images telling
your story.
But
why? …..there are many reasons why.
Modern
birth is becoming more and more “normalized”, which is simply brilliant! It
needs to be. It is the most natural and beautiful empowering thing. It’s not
something that should be kept secret or behind closed doors. By you telling and
showing your story through movies and images, you can courageously share this
with our future generations, steering them away from any preconceived fear of
birth, and help make birth a positive and beautiful life event.
You
will be able to look back on these images to see all you missed on the day.
Labour can sometimes be a bit of a blur.
You can look back and see the love your partner had for you that day,
the way they looked at you with a newly discovered admiration, the way they
looked at their brand new son or daughter for the first time, full of emotion.
Your eyes are full of tears so you miss all this, you only see snippets of
these precious seconds. This love for this tiny bundle you have just made is
immediate and a type of love that was completely undiscovered until right now
at this moment. Your support person will
be in tears, I will be in tears. This,
to me, is the most important and powerful moment of a birth story.
Another
reason is newborn bubs can change so super quickly from the moment they are in
our arms. Their little birthday suits of
wrinkled, milky coated, purplish skin will start turning pink often in the
first hour. They can finally reach and
stretch out of the fetal position, extend their fingers and see you for the
first time. Your images will bring this
back to you.
Finally,
and this is purely for you, you can look back on these images and see the
strength and determination that you may have never known you had. You can see
the protection for your child that you haven’t even met yet is already there.
You
are capable of achieving amazing things.
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